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I'm 23 years of age and married. I've never had an with another person be it male or female. I have s with only a oral stimulator. feels good only for a 5 minute period. And I also bleed and it's painful after the 2nd time go-round. It's not my husband. This has happened ever since I started having , which is 18. BTW, vibrators do nothing for me. after 5 minutes hurts. I have a hormonal imbalance so that may be the problem. The doctors aren't helping me. Please help. I don't know what to do. My husband is going to leave me. Help!